It's Sorta Twisty

It's sick and sorta twisty in that Oedipus kind of way. I'm talking about my ex and her new girlfriend, the one whose life she's going to screw up.

The ex had been planning to marry this ol' girl on this girl's birthday. It was surprise apparently. Now how in the world do you plan a surprise wedding? Beats me. I told you she was crazy! Her plan of surprise got the best of her I suppose. She never really could keep a secret when she is in her happy place, right before she is getting ready to manic. So now she told the new g/f about the plan. I guess the g/f said yes. Tragic. The ol' girl hasn't a clue of what is in store for her.

Sure, they've been together two years. This is about the average time for the ex to stay with anyone. I made it almost seven years. But according to the ex, they fight too. Course, I never figured that one out, since I did not do the fighting. The ex did. You cannot have a discussion about anything, if she does not agree with your point of view. To her, it is always an argument. Oh well, better the new g/f than me I suppose. Let her argue with her. It gives me an upset stomach and headache.

But the really funny thing about the new g/f is, even though I don't personally know her, I know her all the same. Because I know my ex. I know her better than she knows herself sometimes. I knew all along when she was saying she was planning this big surprise for the g/f's birthday, what she was up too. Lord! Give me a break!

Now, my ex has this thing about older women. That's okay I suppose as long as they don't look as old or older than your own mother. The odd thing though, is my ex always yelled at me that she did not need a mother. She has one. Well, la dee dah! Don't date women close to your mother's age if you do not want them acting or looking as old or older than your own mother!

So if you see the new g/f, you will be in for a big shock. Or maybe not, depending on how you look at it. Me now, I was a bit taken aback. Even though I am older than the new g/f by several years, but I do not look anywhere near my current age. Much less do I look anywhere near as bad as this ol' girl! I had to fix my former comment. It was just nastier than I should have ever written. My bad. I'm just hurt.

Seriously though, this ol' girl is nowhere near what the ex has always found attractive - sexually or otherwise. It must be based on personality and I cannot help but know that this is where her Oedipus problem lies. She had a bit of one with me, even though she would never admit it, but I know. I ignored it and maybe we should have stuck with the therapist after all. Maybe that would have helped both of us. Maybe not, who knows. I wasn't over the moon about this particular counselor.

I feel kind of bad for the new g/f though. If she does go through with the "marriage" on her birthday, all her birthday's for the rest of her life will most likely be filled with sorrow. Because this "marriage" will not work out. I know the ex too well! So it really is sad, sick and sorta twisty.