Marriage & The Gay Community

I am so fucking sick of hearing so many of the Gay Community whining about how they cannot get married legally. Yes, in some states that right was passed. And it should have been. Why? Let me tell you my point of view on this.

In my state, it isn't legal. I don't believe it is all because of the thing that marriage should only be between men and women. I think a great deal of it has to do with the fact that many Gay people just cannot commit to their partners. You betcha! I see this shit happening all the time. You check out the gays you know that have "life partners", complete with wedding rings and all and you just ask them how many they have had. I'll bet the answer will surprise you!

I had my Commitment Ceremony. Oh yes. Right down to the preacher and all. Just like a real, legally binding wedding. Did that do any good? Hell no!

Because here my partner is... takes off and leaves for the last time, two and a half years ago. She now has a new partner. She was even wearing wedding rings not three months after they got together! What the fuck??

Now this dyke is having yet another Ceremony with the new partner. I just don't get it. I won't get it either. And neither does the straight community!

So many gays go out and have their little ceremonies and have zero to little interest in what that ceremony really meant. They go from one partner to the other, with the change of the wind. There is no retribution involved. No divorce. No time and money laid out on ending the "commitment". So there you are. And the gays wonder why they can't have real, legal marriages.

Hello!!! Fucking get a clue people!

You want all that comes with a real marriage. Start showing the straights just what it is and what you mean. I'm not talking about having the fucking ceremonies that don't make a shit to most of you - especially my life partner. Yes, she would be considered my ex now. But then, so where all her other "partners" too. So - there you are yet again!

The people like my "ex" don't get it. Just how many "life" partners do you get to have in one life without the personal sacrifice, real commitment and everything else that goes with having a marriage???

I realize that the straights can get married as many times as they choose. But they also have to go through the legalities of getting divorced before they can remarry. Gays should have to do this too!

I am just so pissed off right now. Don't get me wrong. I still am in love with my "ex". I still consider our commitment ceremony to be our marriage ceremony. But what I want to know is, why does she or anyone else in the gay community think it is okay to just get to walk away from a relationship and not have to pay for this in one form or another?

Just how many Commitment Ceremonies do you get to have?

I want to get my hands on her and just strangle the life out of her. I really do. She's getting married again. Oh my God! Give me a break! Get your ass home and work this shit out once and for all!!! You get ONE ceremony and wedding bitch! Only ONE! Until you come clean and fix the shit you did one way or the other, you only get ONE!!!!! I will NEVER let you go from this. I swear it. NEVER!

Okay - so I'm done with that part. Whew... aren't you glad??

But this is exactly my point. The Gay Community needs to wake up and realize that if they want to be taken seriously - they need to get serious in regards to their commitments with their life partners. It really is a marriage. The only kind they are allowed to have in my state for now. So get real people. Put forth a real effort here. Do what is right by your life partners and don't keep jumping from one wedding ring partnership to another!